“I Won’t Be Able to Do That”

“I Won’t Be Able to Do That”

Continuing my series on simple but effective communications phrases, I offer another empowering and mutually respectful line to you: “I won’t be able to do that.”  This simple phrase is useful whenever you need to “excuse” yourself from a request. Let’s take a closer...
Three Questions for Awkward Situations: Question 3

Three Questions for Awkward Situations: Question 3

In two recent writings I have suggested questions to use in initiating conversations with others. These are constructive ways to begin and continue a dialog with someone. The third question explores means to help others open up to you, while simultaneously showing...
Three Questions for Awkward Situations: Question 3

Three Questions to Ask in Awkward Situations: Question 2

Question #2 – “Would you help me understand?” In my last article, the first of three questions was offered that I used to empower people in awkward situation. The first question was, “Would you help me?” You can re-read Part #1 as I refresher, but in...
Three Questions for Awkward Situations: Question 3

Three Questions for Awkward Situations: Question 1

Question #1 – “Would you help me?” Feeling Tongue-Tied I’ve often felt “tongue tied.” I’ve been caught off-guard in situations where I didn’t know what to say or do. Whether lost in a city, confused by a project or trying to move a heavy couch alone, I’ve struggled...